Wednesday, 20 June 2012

Real Women Shave Their Palms

Rowing like I never did at Zoo Lake

The Fittest Woman in Africa doesn’t seem to have fussed with her hair or makeup this morning. Yet here she is looking gorgeous. CrossFit girls are annoying that way.

But I’m not here to hang out and curse my luck at not being built like an Amazon; I’m here to get rowing training from one. By the end of today I’ll be rowing like a Greek warrior.

The magic words

I’m expecting Rika Diedericks to plunge right in with advice on how weight training and a thousand hours of practice can get me comfortable with a rowing machine. Or at the very least get my arms and shoulders looking like hers. But no, there’s nothing about wods or lifts at the start of the workshop, the magic formula she opens with is a quote. Yes, really.

The key to rowing, she tells us, is this: rhythm, harmony and balance.

Rhythm, rhythm, rhythm, she stresses. Not just in rowing, but in CrossFit in general. Not just in CrossFit, but in life.

Ahh, and there it is, the moment when the lessons we learn in the box become lessons to use in life. And those lessons do come, as surely and frequently as CrossFit boys train without their shirts on.

The rhythm of life

Throughout the workshop she keeps coming back to this one thing. And it’s this word that’s been rumbling around on in my brain since the weekend. Rhythm!

I’ve been thinking how hard it can be to find that rhythm. It’s like sitting on the rowing machine, sometimes you move in stops and starts, sometimes you settle into a rhythm but it’s all wrong for you and your body feels awkward and slow. You need to find that rhythm that’s uniquely yours.  

And I’ve been thinking of the rhythm of my life: a good morning kiss while I’m still fuzzy with sleep, school lunch tucked in a pocket and a shy “I love you mom”, the aroma of coffee enveloping my desk, a few stolen seconds looking skywards and falling up into the stars when I close the blinds, snug pugs grunting goodnight.

They’re important these small moments that give my life some sort of pattern, stop the Technicolor fabric of my world from simply fraying and fading into the blank nothingness of time.

Can you feel the flow?

It’s that rhythm in your life that helps you keep you moving forward, albeit imperceptibly, even when you feel like the world’s dragging you backwards. Like the beating of your heart, the pulsing of your blood, the ticking of a clock, it’s there like a chanted mantra that “every day in every way it’s getting better and better”. 

And when you’re exhausted and life isn’t playing nice and you can’t see exactly where you’re going, you just keep rowing, you just keep going at your own pace knowing that every rhythmic breath carries to a little closer to your goal.
 
These people, they make music

 And the CrossFitters who are at the workshop, all crowded eagerly around the rowing machines? I realise that I’ve always felt so alone here at CFJ but that somehow during the past few weeks they’ve started paddling right here alongside me. There’s team McCabe are on the far end; they’re going to be married for the next 50 years if their marriage is as strong as their pullups. Neil and Ruby are rowing as if the very future of CrossFit depends on them while Imtiaz is cruising so gracefully I can almost hear oars slice the water. Then there’s Tia, looking beautiful but wearing her pain face and Zu and Annemarie bundled up in what seems to be the entire the CrossFit winter catalogue.

And me? For once I feel like I’m not sinking, and right now that’s enough.

Rhythm, harmony and balance

So after a morning in a freezing cold box soaking up Rika’s words, I came away with these key points: I need rhythm, I need firm abs and good posture and I most definitely need a cheap little orange razor. The razor; for those of you who like me suspected it must have something to do with minimising the drag on your leg hairs; is actually for shaving your calluses with.

And with that I have a neat bundle of instructions that works just as well for life: I’ve got to keep moving forward at my own, regular pace; keep my body strong and standing tall; and get rid of all the dead weight and the people or things that bring me nothing but pain.

Ok, so I may not have Olympic shoulders, but I am working on having an Olympic mind set. In my own time. All in my own time.


                                                                                                          - Jolene Raison

“Harmony, balance, rhythm. There you have it. That’s what life is all about.” – George Pocock

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